My phone wouldn’t stop vibrating.
It was around 3 am, and I couldn’t understand why I kept getting these insanely racey text messages.
Text #1. When are you coming over? – Samantha
Text #2. As promised (attached photo of girl in sexy lingerie)- Rebecca
Text #3. You said you’d call me later!- Emily
I thought to myself, what the hell is going on!? Then I remembered. Tim had borrowed my phone for about an hour earlier that night.
This happened about five years ago. I went to a bar with an old friend who I hadn’t seen in a while. I’d known this guy since grade school, and he’d always had fairly mediocre results with women. Midway through our night out, his phone died and he asked to borrow mine. I didn’t put too much thought into it until later on when I received three suggestive text messages from random numbers asking where I was. It turns out my buddy had met three different girls that night and they all wanted to meet up with him later. That was the moment I realized there was something to know. How had my friend changed this area of his life so dramatically in such a short period of time? How did he go from being consistently friendzoned to having hot girls sext him after midnight? What incredible seduction technique must he have learned over the six months since I’d seen him? I asked him, and he told me that he’d been living with a few guys who were naturals with women, and had pretty much copied what they were doing. He told me that the biggest secret he picked up, if there was one, was to genuinely not care. More specifically, to not care what other people think. It turns out there’s a name for people who share this philosophy: alpha males.
Shortly after that night, I became fascinated by the character traits that an alpha male projects. I made notes of the people I perceived to be alpha and wrote down their physical and mental habits. Certain traits kept coming up.
What if I told you that widening your legs and talking slow could get you laid? Or that touching your face is a sign universally interpreted as indicating increased anxiety? The traits that define a man who is successful with women can be learned. A talented and observant actor can change from beta to alpha male just by altering some basic physical movements. If they can do it so can anyone else. You can learn how to be an alpha male.
In this book, a two-pronged approach is taken. First, we’ll look at the internal changes necessary to correcting bad habits – adjustments to ‘mind.’ Then, we’ll analyze the actual physical traits that you should start to use – adjustments to ‘body.’ I’m going to teach you how to be powerful. And the benefits of this extend past getting women; a recent study showed that more than 75% of top executives have alpha male character traits. This is raw, fundamental stuff.
Most alpha male books forward a system that hides who you are. They essentially say that it’s better to act like someone else – which is surprisingly hard to pull off. The true alpha male teaching, and the focus of this book, is, instead, to become comfortable with asserting yourself.
Guess what the best way to practice is? Meeting real girls. How do you meet real girls? One of the best ways I’ve found is on Plenty of Fish. Check out my plenty of fish guide to get as many ‘practice’ dates as you want.